How I Met the Man of My Dreams
My first marriage preceded meeting the man of my dreams. I had no inkling, when I married, that I’d become one of those divorce statistics. But there I was, disappointed in love, ashamed that my marriage had failed, worried about being a single mother, confused and frightened that I’d never meet a man I could love, or be truly happy again.
Don’t underestimate how painful it feels to be a divorcee after a decade of marriage.
It was during this dark night of the soul that I started asking the big questions of life. My search for answers kick-started my personal development journey – and DELIVERED GOLD!
In the very first workshop I attended, run by the late Mahni Dugan, I was surprised to discover that beliefs and patterns I harboured had made me equally responsible for the failure of my marriage. Like the belief I uncovered in the workshop that it wasn’t safe for me to have a loving, affectionate husband. Clever, good company, fun in a partner were OK, but loving was dangerous!
In the workshop, I was guided to trace that back to my parents’ role modelling. My mother had suffered from migraine headaches and my father had fussed over her and tried to help her so she wouldn’t be anxious and trigger her next migraine. I remember hating that, so, unbeknown to me, the belief lodged in my subconscious, that ‘If I have a loving and affectionate husband (like my father), I’d end up weak and sick’ (like my mother). My choice of a walled -off husband, who fled from emotional intimacy, was perfect for a young woman with my beliefs.
Fortunately, I learned the gift of powerfully reframing those limited beliefs. My new belief, and mantra, became ’When I have a man in my life who is loving and affectionate, it becomes the wind beneath my wings.’
The other gift I was lucky enough to be taught in that workshop was how to manifest dreams.
That skill, ScriptWriting, was uncannily effective in delivering the man of my dreams, now my second husband.
In my first script, written one December a long time ago, I stated that I’d met the man of my dreams in the following September. I also described what he was like, and the wonder of our love and life together.
In February, at a follow-up to that workshop, a man who had participated in the workshop preceding the one I attended, asked for my phone number. He warned ‘I’ll be working in London for several months, so don’t expect to hear from me till later this year.’
In October the phone rang, and he’s the man I married! Very different from my first husband, who wasn’t big on compliments. Not great for someone like me, whose primary love language is words of affirmation.
Peter, my second husband, is an author of a string of best-selling romance novels. His daily greeting to me is ‘Hello, beautiful.’ Not a day goes by when he doesn’t tell me how wonderful he thinks I am, or thank me for something I’ve done. Affection and admiration are his middle names. And I love that!
Over the next couple of years, ScriptWriting had me double my income, then sell my consultancy company for millions. Not a year goes by when I don’t write a Script, and I’m blessed to have manifested almost everything I’ve scripted.
I’ve since become an empowerment coach and most of the 1000+ people with whom I’ve shared the art and mindset of mastery of ScriptWriting have manifested their dreams too.
ScriptWriting is easily taught, and highly effective. If you want to meet your soulmate, or bring sweetness back into a relationship that has soured, I’d be honoured to give you the tools and skills to do so.
Its great track record makes me confident that it will work for you if you’re ready to create a life filled with love, abundance and joy.